Let this Cup Pass – Did Jesus Change His Mind?



In Matthew 26:39, on the night before His crucifixion, Jesus prayed,

O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will but as you will.

Jesus praying

Though none of us can fully comprehend either the physical or the spiritual suffering that Jesus was about to endure, such a prayer by Jesus confuses many people. Up until this point, it seems that Jesus has known full well what He would face on the cross, and went toward it willingly and resolutely. And yet now it seems that He is praying for a way around the cross. While some pastors and scholars just say that such a prayer reveals the full humanity of Jesus, I am not sure the answer is that easy. I do not think Jesus changed His mind.

Let’s look at the evidence.

Scripture Evidence

First, the plan of the cross had been established from the very foundations of the world. In Ephesians 1:4, Paul writes about this plan. The fact that it would include the slaying of God’s own Son is recorded in Revelation 13:8. Before Jesus was even born, He knew that He must die on earth.

Second, numerous times during His ministry, Jesus spoke of His coming death in graphic detail and referred to it as “drinking the cup.” In Matthew 16:21 Jesus began to teach His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem to suffer and die (cf. Matt 17:22-23; Luke 9:22). He even knew many of the details, that He would be arrested, condemned, mocked, whipped, spit upon, and killed (Mark 10:32-33). Furthermore, He occasionally used the imagery of drinking deeply from a cup to describe this painful suffering and death He would endure (cf. Matt 20:22-23). Also, in an earlier prayer, He stated that He would not pray for God to save Him from the suffering that was to come (John 12:27-28).

Third, after the prayer in the Gethsemane, Jesus continued to show willingness to drink the cup. In John 18:11, after Jesus had finished praying, and as He was being arrested in the Garden of Gethsemane, Peter tried to rescue Jesus by pulling a sword on the Temple guards. But Jesus stopped Peter, and asked him, “Shall I not drink the cup which My Father has given Me?”

So if both before and after the prayer in the Garden, Jesus knew what His death would entail, and showed complete acceptance of it, how can we understand His prayer in the Garden for the cup to pass from Him? Did He have a moment of weakness? Was He losing His resolve? Was He afraid of the pain? Did He change His mind? The answer to all of these is “No.”

The Passover Solution

Last SupperPart of the problem is that we do not understand the Passover imagery which Jesus was using. Jesus and the apostles had just come from eating their Passover meal, during which time they would have drunk deeply from four cups of wine. At that time, the table would usually share one, large, communal cup. The custom was that when the cup came to the place you were reclining, you must drink from it as deeply as you could, before passing it on to the next person at the table.

If it was emptied, it would be filled again before being passed on. Often, at the bottom of the cup, there were bitter dregs from the wine. If you were the person to empty the cup, you must drink the bitter dregs as well, before passing the cup on.

So when Jesus prays, “Let this cup pass from me,” He is not saying, “I don’t want to drink it,” but is rather praying, “Let me drink of it as deeply as I possibly can before I pass it on to humanity. Let me empty it. Let me drain it. Let me drink all of it, even the bitter dregs at the bottom of the cup.” Jesus was not asking God to let Him avoid the cup, but was asking to let Him take on as much of it as He possibly could, and if possible, if it was God’s will, to let Him drink every single drop, down the bitter end.

This is how the statements about not doing His own will, but the will of God, are to be understood (Matt 26:39, 42). Jesus was not praying to bypass the cup of pain and death, but was praying to end the reign of sin and death once and for all, in Himself, on the cross. Jesus was praying to finish the plan, to bring it to completion. Was He looking forward to the pain and suffering? Of course not. But nor was He shying away from it.

The Surprising Will of God

The seeming conflict between the will of Jesus and the will of God in Matthew 26:39, 42 was not, I think, in the will of Jesus, but in the will of God. It was God who was “struggling” with what to do; not Jesus. God was having to face a decision on whether He would let mankind suffer for our own sin, or if He would take all that sin and pour it out upon His one and only, perfectly righteous, everlasting Son. If He did that, their eternal relationship would never be exactly the same.

Which of us could ever make such a decision as God made here? He had to decide between His own Son, and all of wretched, sinful, rebellious humanity.

So Jesus, in His prayers to His Father, is saying,

God, this is why I have come. This is why I am here. This has been our plan from the very beginning. I want this. I want to drink this cup. I want to drink it fully. I want to drink every drop. I will not pass any bit of it on to the rest of humanity. I want to drink fully of the cup of your wrath (cf. Jer 25:17-38; Isa 51:17-23). This is how much I love them. This is how much I long for their redemption and forgiveness. Let me do this. This is my will. But ultimately, God, it is up to you. It is your choice.

If Jesus was uncertain of anything, it was not His own will to drink of the cup, but of the will of God to take the sin of all mankind and pour it out upon His Son. In His prayer, Jesus was asking God to finish what they had started.

This is what I love so much about Jesus. He truly is our Great High Priest, the Mediator between God and man. He did not try to pray Himself out of the pain and suffering of the cross at the last minute. No, He embraced it to the very end, praying and pleading with God to stay the course, despite how painful it would be for both of them to sever their relationship, and make Jesus become sin for us (2 Cor 5:21).

Oh, and by the way, I don’t think God hesitated for a second either. Jesus says that if we have seen Him, we have seen the Father. Therefore, God the Father loves us just as much as Jesus does. There was never any question about what would happen on the cross. Jesus did not change His mind about the cross, and neither did God the Father. Together, they endured the cross, despised it’s shame, so that Jesus could once again sit down at the right hand of God the Father in heaven, and we could be offered eternal life.

Edit: Added some exegetical evidence for this view.

The word used in Matthew 26:39 for “pass” is parerchomai, which can be translated in a variety of ways. It is used, for example, to speak of the coming to completion or the inability of God’s word to pass away until all is fulfilled (cf. Matt 5:18; 24:35; Mark 13:31; Luke 16:17; 21:33).

I am one of those individuals, however, who thinks that in cases such as the Passover meal, and in His prayers, Jesus spoke in Hebrew. What we have then in the Gospels is a Greek translation from the Hebrew that Jesus spoke. There are numerous references in the early church to a Gospel written in Hebrew.

So in Matthew 26:39, in place of the Greek word parerchomai, the Ginsburg Hebrew New Testament contains the Hebrew word abar, which means “to pass through.” This is crucial word in the account of the Passover (cf. Exodus 12:12, 23). In that account, the Lord “passed over” (Heb. pesach), the houses of the Israelites which had blood of the lamb on the doorpost, but He “passed through” (Heb. abar) the houses of the Egyptians which did not.

It appears that when Jesus prayed to let the cup pass, He used the word abar. He was not praying to escape the pain and suffering, and have it pass over (pesach) Him, but was praying to take it on fully, to experience the pain, death, and suffering of the cup of God’s wrath. This fits perfectly with the Passover imagery. Jesus, as the Lamb of God slain before the foundations of the world, takes on the full brunt the punishment for sin, allowing His blood to be put on the doorposts of all who believe in Him, so that punishment passes over them.


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  • Aaron

    Bro, excellent piece. Makes complete sense.

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Thanks Aaron. I am enjoying your “New Inklings” posts.

  • http://cognitivediscopants.wordpress.com Chris M

    Jeremy,
    I understand the metaphor, but I still don’t see how Christ’s statement implies a desire to drink the cup dry. If he wanted to drink to the bottom of the cup to taste the worst, wouldn’t he say “Let this cup NOT pass from me?” As in, let me finish it. What am I missing? Also, does your analysis hold with Christ praying that the “hour might pass from him” in Mark 14:35?

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Chris,
      Good question. I may not have been as clear there as I wanted. In Jewish passover imagery, the cup does not pass from you until you have drunk from it as deeply as you can. When the cup is passed to you, you cannot “pass it from you” without drinking deeply from it. We get confused because we think Jesus is looking at the cup, and saying, “God, can I get a pass? I would like to avoid drinking this if possible.”

      But that is not what He meant. The opposite in fact. Truly, Jesus does pass on the cup to us, but only after He has drunk it all. So we get the fresh, new wine. Jesus is praying, “Let this cup pass from me after I have drunk it all.” Hope that helps a bit.

  • Neil

    Hey Jeremy,
    Provocative article. Any sources?
    Blessings,
    Neil

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      No written sources. Sorry. I learned it from Dr. Jay Quine, one of my seminary professors at DTS. So all I have are my sketchy class notes. I suppose he could be wrong. So If I find better documented resources, I will post them here.

      • Sam

        It is an interesting take on what Jesus said. It certainly explains Jesus’ request.

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  • Clive Clifton

    Your right Jeremy, thank you for confirming what I always believed, that when He set his face like flint to enter Jerusalem, knowing what He had to face, there was no way He was going to change His mind. What we do not know is the conversation he had with His Dad. Did His Dad say “Son, you don’t have to go through with this” Jesus may have said “it’s OK Dad their worth it, aren’t they” “yes Son they are, see you later”.

    Thank you Jeremy, it really brought it home to me what they both did, and I imagine the Holy Spirit wrapping His arms around both of them in consolation and agreement. You made me cry again, thank you. Clive

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Clive,
      I do believe that Jesus and the Father had a conversation very similar to the one you have presented there. That is how much they both love us!

  • Jeanne S.

    It an interesting argument and I can see some of what you are saying except what with the fact that Jesus
    was sweating blood which certainly suggest someone agonizing over something.

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Jeanne,

      Yes, though He went willingly, He still agonized over the pain and suffering He was about to experience.

  • Pam Frazier

    I like this perspective a lot. I posted the link in my group and the funny thing is, I can’t get anyone to read it. Maybe afraid to challenge their long held beliefs??? This is a very open minded organic group. I don’t understand it. I keep popping back to the top trying to get some to read but they won’t. What about the sweating of blood?? That certainly signifies much distress??

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Pam,

      Thanks for posting it in your group.

      Anyway, yes, Jesus certainly agonized and was distressed about what was going to happen to Him. He had certainly seen people crucified, and knew what was going to happen to Him. Not only that, but bearing the sins of the whole world on Himself was nothing to take lightly either. So this explains the drops of blood.

  • Luke

    I think the distress Jesus was feeling that caused Him to sweat blood was the unknown to Him. Jesus was fully prepared and willing to suffer the extreme physical pain and torture ahead of Him. He knew what was going to happen, He surely had experienced physical pain before, after all He was a carpenter and used tools. He hit his thumb at least once with a hammer right. But Jesus had never experienced sin or separation from God. I think this is what caused Him such great distress. My point being Jesus had experienced physical pain while in this earth, but had never experienced sin or separation from God, EVER!

    • http://www.tillhecomes.org Jeremy Myers

      Luke,

      Great point. The righteous, holy, perfect God, becoming sin for us, is certainly a point of anguish for Jesus. Knowing that he was going to be separated from God, and forsaken by God would have been a source of much distress.

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