How to Win Souls… or Not

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This is a guest post by Sam Riviera. He spends most of his time and energy caring for others in his community so that through his life and actions they might see Jesus. He has also written “14 Reasons I Never Returned to the Institutional Church.

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soul winning“Lord lay some soul upon my heart. And love that soul through me. And may I always do my part. To win that soul to thee.”

Some of us who grew up in church grew up singing that song. We were told it meant we were to be soul-winners. We should do everything possible to “win” people to the Lord.

How might that look? – For many of us that meant we should invite people to church so they could hear the Gospel preached and “get saved.” Once they’re saved, God and the church would take care of them and we would find someone else to invite to church.

Here are some other ways we are taught to engage in soul winning:

Lord, Lay Some Soul Upon My Heart

Feel a burden for someone I know who isn’t saved. Pray for them. Give them some Christian literature that talks about salvation, and something that would make them want to attend my church.

Fortunately, if the Lord hasn’t laid someone on my heart, they’re not my burden. They must be someone else’s burden. I need to focus on the people the Lord has laid upon my heart.

Love That Soul Through Me

Always be nice to the people the Lord has laid upon my heart. Be friendly. Say hello every time I see them. If they have a sick family member, offer to take dinner to their family.

May I Always Do My Part To Win That Soul to Thee

Use the word “Lord” in casual conversation. Mention that I like my church and that they would like it also. Invite them to a special event at my church that I think they might be willing to go to. If they don’t go, give the pastor their name and address and ask him to call on them. Maybe he can convince them to go to church.

Apparently the “my part” business means other people also will be involved with this project. If several of us invite people to church, eventually maybe they’ll go. Then the pastor can do his part and preach a sermon that will convince them to repent and get saved.

Anything Else?

Does that describe how we “win souls”? Does God lay certain people on our heart to “win”? Are we the ones who get them to church, to Jesus and to the decision to get saved?

I could have written every word of this post prior to this sentence in 1962. That is exactly how I thought in 1962. I thought it was my responsibility to get certain people I knew to church so they could get saved. People who didn’t go to church were at the top of my list.

Over the past fifty years however, my understanding of “soul winning” has changed. I have discovered that the conservative evangelical church’s viewpoint in the 1950’s did not necessarily represent the viewpoint of other churches, nor the viewpoint held by the church over the previous two millennia. Apparently it does not represent the viewpoint actually held by many Christians and churches today.

If we believe that we must “win souls,” why aren’t we doing it? According to what I have read, the average church only adds one or two new members each year by “profession of faith.” Can that information possibly be correct? Maybe some atheist organization invented that “statistic”!

What Do You Think?

Before I explain my take on “soul winning,” I would like to hear what you think.

Should we attempt to win souls? Why? How do we do it? What have we tried that works?

Is it possible to “win” souls?

Where does God fit into the equation?

Does the Bible tell us that God will lay some soul upon our hearts so we can win that soul to him?


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  • http://www.tillhecomes.org/ Jeremy Myers

    Sam,

    Great post! I always love publishing your guest posts, because they make me think!

    We just moved into a neighborhood and are meeting some of our neighbors. It turns out that an atheist lived in our house before we did, and our neighbors are Christians. They told us that they tried to evangelize him on numerous times over the years. When I asked “How?” they said, “We invited him to church every chance we got.” I don’t know if that is all they did, but it was interesting that this was the first answer they gave when they thought about evangelism.

    Regarding soul winning, what do you think about Proverbs 11:30?

    Also, (and maybe you will deal with this in your next post) what do you think of the idea that “soul” is just another synonym for “life” so that “soul winning” in the Bible is not about telling people how to get to heaven, but about helping rescue and deliver them right now in this life?

    • Sam

      Thank you, Jeremy!

      As you might guess, I doubt that inviting someone to church qualifies as “soul winning”, unless one defines soul winning as getting someone into the church system – attending, giving money and time and generally supporting the church.

      At most of the churches we attended, I kept track of who attended and discovered that most people rarely stayed more than two or three years. Many moved on much quicker than that. My wife and I called on some of the people who left, and often found that they had been totally turned off to church and everything related to church. We did not invite people to church for fear that church might do that to them also.

      I’ll write another post and discuss Proverbs 11:30. I have heard the idea that soul winning rescues and delivers people in this life, but always in the context that they were “saved” (repented), so they changed their ways (stopped drinking, carousing and so on and became decent law-abiding citizens).

      • http://www.tillhecomes.org/ Jeremy Myers

        Thanks, Sam. I am looking forward to your next post! Thanks for being a contributor (and reader) to the blog!

  • http://www.facebook.com/taco.verhoef Taco Verhoef

    Does the bible tell us to win souls? I thought Jesus said to us to go in to all the world and make disciples. Or in other words teach others what he (has) teaches us, well hid disciples, but you catch what I want to say.

    • Sam

      Some people think the Bible tells us to win souls, based on Proverbs 11:30 and based on Jesus telling his disciples that he would make them fishers of men.

      Yes, teach others what Jesus is teaching us. Some take that as teaching others to think right (right doctrine). Some think it means showing others the love of Jesus so that they might understand that love and in so doing might love Jesus and others. What does teaching others look like for you?

      • http://www.facebook.com/taco.verhoef Taco Verhoef

        Sorry for the very late reply but I never got this mailed to me any more so here we go.

        It simply means to me to tell peeps about the grace of God and do the grace unto others, even when that is hard. It sometimes is very very hard, but still try to do so.

  • Moises Saenz

    I believe we need to reflect Christ in us for other people to see what following Jesus is.We need to show our relationship with God, like showing that we love them and that the Church loves each other, that they can see God.

    • Sam

      I think you’re right! This is the direction I’ll be going with the second post on the topic. People want to be loved with the love of Jesus.

      • http://www.tillhecomes.org/ Jeremy Myers

        I’m looking forward to the next post… it should go up Monday!

  • Eric Laycock

    “But tarry ye in the city of Jerusalem, until ye be bestowed with power from on high.” Lk 24:49

    I think that sometimes we need to wait (not passively!) to really and intimately know Jesus before He uses us as He intends.