Manly Valentines Day Gifts

Ever wonder what a woman can get for a man on Valentine’s Day? The stores are full of things men can get a woman…chocolate, flowers, cards, jewelry…but there is nothing to get for a man. My wife says this is because Valentine’s Day is more for a woman than for a man. Of course, that’s because what a man wants can’t be sold in a store…but that’s all I’ll say about that.

Anyway, if you ladies really want to get a gift for your man, let me suggest the following:

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My Wife the Church Planter

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My wife was on the phone tonight with another church planting wife. I overheard some of her discussion, and wow! did I ever marry the right woman!

Actually, I got a little humbled. She should be the one planting a church. Of course, since church planting is a family thing, she is. But still, I found myself thinking, “Where did she learn all this? I’m the one who has read all the books and gone to all the conferences, but she’s the one who can put words to what we want to do and how we want to do it.” I’m kicking myself for not recording her conversation.

So if you ever have questions about our church planting process, direct them to my wife!

 Oh, and she’s beautiful too, isn’t she?

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Church Planting with Will Smith - Part 3

Today is the third and final installment on things I’ve learned about church leadership and church planting from Will Smith.  Yesterday we looked at the first five. Here are the last five:

6. Understand ideas, and which ideas move people.Smith says that when studying movies, and which ones are popular, he tries to back up and get the big picture. “I look at movies in their essence,” Smith says. “Will that idea sell?” If you look at the movies Smith does, he always does movies that focus on an idea or a story that resonate with the vast majority of people on the planet. He is not just trying to entertain, he is trying to connect.

7. Understand universal patterns. This is related to number 6. Smith calls himself a student of universal patterns. He watches for movements in worldwide society and culture, and then tries to focus on these patterns. He and his manager sit down every Monday morning any analyze the box office numbers for the past weekend, as well as the past 10, 20, and 30 weekends. He is looking for trends and patterns.

8. Think globally. Smith doesn’t just want people in the US to see his movies. He wants to be a worldwide movie star. So after a movie debuts in the US, he travels to England, Germany, Japan, Brazil, China, and promotes his movies. This, of course, makes him popular with the movie producers because it is  more money for them.

9. Go where the people are. Since Smith didn’t initially have worldwide recognition, he knew it would be hard to get a worldwide platform unless he went where people were already gathering. So when he travels, he travels intentionally. He promotes his movies in South Korea at the World Cup, in Brazil during Carnival, and is headed to Beijing for the 2008 Olympics. Why try to gather a crowd on your own when you can just use a ready-made crowd?

10. Never neglect what is important: family. This I though was the most amazing thing of all. Hollywood actors are not known for stable marriages, mostly because they are trying to follow their dreams and make it big. Smith has been married for 10 years and says, “Our first official date was with a relationship counselor. The math is simple. Start while it’s good. Do it three times a week while you’re laughing and still having fun. You get so much more work done. You head off problems. Do it during the ether time, and do it aggressively.” Smith knows that all of his fame and glory is nothing if he doesn’t have a his wife and kids to share it with.

Now, most of these ten principles are driven by secular goals. But if you go back through them, and substitute in spiritual, Biblically-based goals, you have a surprisingly good list of what it takes to hear God say “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

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The Definition of Busy

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How do you define “busy”?

Here’s mine: You know you are busy when you catch yourself making a list for all the things you need to make lists for:

Make a list of things I need to do for the adoption process.
Make a list of things I need to do for my Thesis.
Make a list of homework projects that are coming due soon.
Make a list of high priority projects at work.
Make a list of things I need to do around the house and to the car to keep everything working.
Make a list of edits and changes that need to be done to the website.
Make a list of things to do to keep from going crazy.

How about you? How do you know when you’ve taken on too much? Weigh in on the comments below…

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12:11am

Some days I think I’m going crazy. It’s 12:11am and I’m just now beginning my homework. It’s been this way all week. With a wife and three kids, working toward adopting a fourth child, full time school, full time work, speaking engagements, and writing, I just don’t have enough time. I need to be Hiro from Heroes.

Please pray for me, that we make it through this year!

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